Contempt of Court in a Family Law Case: The Basics
Authored By: Northwest Justice Project
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- What is contempt?
- What can lead to contempt?
- What can the court do if it finds contempt?
- What must I show to prove that contempt has occurred?
- How do I decide if contempt is appropriate in my case?
- What alternatives do I have to contempt?
- What are the risks of filing for contempt?
- I have been served with a contempt motion. What are my defenses?
- What if the other party is in the military?
- What is the procedure for contempt?
- What happens at the contempt hearing?
- What happens if the court enters a contempt order?
This publication gives general information about
The main goal of “coercive civil contempt” is to make the person who is violating a court order obey that order in the future.
If you are thinking of filing a Motion for Contempt because another party is not following the court order in your case, get our packet called Filing a Motion for Contempt in a Dissolution Caseor Filing a Motion for Contempt in a Parentage Case.
If you have been served with a Petition or Motion for Contempt and an Order to Show Cause, get our packet called Responding to a Motion for Contempt in a Family Law Case.
This publication is not a substitute for individual legal advice. We cannot tell you how a court will apply the law in your case.
Contempt is the intentional disobedience of a court order.
Violating the residential time in a parenting plan or residential schedule might be contempt. Examples:
- one parent refuses to allow visitation stated in the parenting plan, or
- one parent will not return the child to the other at the end of visitation, or
- one parent fails to make reasonable efforts to require a child to visit the other parent at the times stated in the parenting plan.
Contempt can happen by action (such as violating a restraining order) or by failure to act (such as not paying ordered child support or spousal maintenance).
You can also use contempt to force the other party to deliver property to you, if a court order required the delivery.
You can use contempt during a divorce, parentage, or third party custody action to enforce final orders from a court or an administrative agency. You can also use contempt to enforce temporary orders and restraining orders.
Contempt is a severe remedy. You should not use it routinely. Contempt is also not always the best or most effective remedy. Sometimes it can just make conflict even worse. Courts hesitate to find a person in contempt unless the violation is serious.
The goal in this type of contempt action is to have the party follow the court order in the future. The court can order different remedies to achieve this. Here are some types of things the court can order:
order the person in contempt to get counseling;
order the person in contempt to complete a parenting class;
order the person in contempt to look for work a certain number of hours a week.
The court can also order future hearings to check whether the person in contempt is now obeying the order.
For violation of a parenting plan, the court can also:
- order that one parent get more make-up residential time with the children;
- award attorneys fees;
- order a civil penalty;
- order greater penalties for the second contempt violation in three years.
If the judge believes the person in contempt probably won’t be able to obey the order in the future:
- the court may tell the person to file a motion to modify (change) the court order so that they do not keep violating it.
The court can also enter a judgment for money due under the order (example: back child support).
The court can order jail time, only as a last resort and only to require someone to obey the court order, not to punish them.
Before it can find a person in contempt, the court must find:
- There is a valid court order in effect 
- The other person knows about the court order
- The facts show a plain violation of the order
- Notice of the contempt hearing and a chance to be heard have been given and
- Contempt is an appropriate remedy for the violation.
If the contempt is for a parenting plan violation,
- there must be evidence that the violation was in bad faith OR
- there must be evidence that the person violating the plan engaged in intentional misconduct OR
- the court must find that prior sanctions haven’t led to compliance with the order.
The court assumes someone refuses to perform a duty in the parenting plan in bad faith. The law presumes you are able to obey the parenting plan. If you do not obey it, you must show:
you are unable to obey it or
you have a reasonable excuse.
Think about these questions before you fill out the contempt forms:
Is the order still in effect? Some orders end at a specific date or when a final order is entered. You cannot use Contempt to enforce an order that has ended. (Exception: you can enforce a child support order through contempt even after the child becomes an adult.)
Does the other person know of the court order? Have you had the person served with a copy of it? If not, was that person present in court when the judge signed the order? If not, notice may not be sufficient. Without proper notice of an order, the court will not hear a contempt motion for violating it. (For restraining orders, having a law enforcement officer read a certified copy of the order to a person is considered notice of the order to that person.)
Have you met any responsibilities you might have yourself under the order to trigger the other person's duty in the same area? Example: You get visitation only after you have completed a drug treatment program. Now you have asked for visitation and been refused. Have you completed the program ordered? Have you proven to the other party you completed it?
Does the order clearly describe the other person's responsibilities? If not, contempt is not a realistic remedy until the court order is clarified or modified and until you can prove your case.
Do you expect the other person to deny their violation? If so, do you have enough proof of the violation? If you cannot show by your own or your witnesses' first-hand knowledge that the other party violated the order, the court will not be able to find the other person in contempt.
Does the other person have a reasonable excuse for the violation? In most contempt cases concerning parenting plans or child support, once you have shown the order is valid and the other person knows of the order but has violated it, the other person must either show a reasonable excuse (for parenting plan violations) or show inability to obey despite reasonable efforts (child support and parenting plan cases). If the other party can do one of these, a contempt motion may just be a waste of time.
Is contempt the most suitable remedy? When someone fails to follow a court order, you might have other options. To know which action is most suitable in your case, you get legal advice about your situation.
Demand letter: Send the other party a letter explaining the violations. Ask him/her to correct them. (Keep a copy of the letter for your own records. Send it by regular and certified mail.)
A letter can sometimes lead to an agreed solution. It can also show that you are being reasonable. It can also help show that the other party knows of the court's order and that you are unhappy with his/her behavior. Your letter should be specific, polite, and business-like.
Motion to Clarify: You can use this when a court order is vague or unclear. Example: when the order just says "reasonable visitation" and the parties disagree on what is reasonable.
Motion/Petition to Modify: You can use this to ask the court to change a court order instead of asking the court to enforce an order. (If this is your situation, consult our website for a list of packets you might use.)
Enforcement and collection: For many kinds of money, support, and property orders, collection actions such as wage assignment, garnishment, or foreclosure work better than contempt. In the case of child support (and spousal maintenance if there is also a child support order), you can get free collection services free from the Child Support Division of DSHS.
Dispute resolution: Many parenting plans contain an alternative procedure to court for you to try first if you disagree about the parenting plan. It may be required in your case. Read your court order to see.
Criminal prosecution: Only for very serious cases.
- Even where contempt is available as a remedy, it costs a lot, the court may not want to do anything, and contempt is hard to prove.
It may be too risky in your case. Think about these possible problems before you decide to file for contempt.
Defending a modification motion. Sometimes filing a Motion for Contempt will cause the other party to file a motion to change the court order. Example: the other party may try to reduce child support or ask for different residential time. If you are not ready to spend time defending against this type of motion, do not file for contempt.
Defending a contempt motion. Have you obeyed the Court's orders yourself? If not, the other party may respond to your motion for contempt by filing his/her own contempt motion against you. Or s/he may argue that your violation of the order prevents him/her from obeying it.
"Crying wolf." Is the violation an important one? Courts do not like to hold a person in contempt for violation of a small item, even if it happens more than once.
Emotional cost. Going to court often creates hard feelings. It may also upset your children. It can also increase the risk of destructive conduct by the other party. Are these dangers in your case? Do you want to go forward anyway?
Risk of fees. In some cases the court can or must charge the losing party with fees. Example: in contempt for parenting plan violations, if the court finds you had no reasonable basis for the motion, it will order you to pay the other party's attorneys fees .
Here are some possible defenses to a charge of contempt:
The Court order is invalid because the court lacked jurisdiction. "Lacked jurisdiction" means the court had no authority to act (subject matter jurisdiction), or you were not served with legal notice in the original case (personal jurisdiction).
You did not violate the order. Example: if the motion asks for back due support, proof of payment is a defense.
You are unable to obey the order through no fault of your own.
If the charge is not paying child support, and you claim you are unable to pay, you must show you tried hard to get work, save money, or otherwise follow the order. 
If the charge is a parenting plan violation, the court will presume you have the ability to follow the parenting plan. You must prove lack of ability or reasonable excuse.
No knowledge of the order. (Use this defense only if you can prove you were never properly got notice of the hearing that led to the order.)
Improper service of the Order to Show Cause scheduling the contempt hearing, or not enough time to respond. (This is only a temporary defense. The other side can get out of contempt before you even get back to court by giving you the proper notice and time to respond.)
- The order is unclear, or seems to have more than one possible meaning. (You may then at least have some duty to try to obey the order as you interpret it and/or to seek clarification. You cannot just ignore the order.)
- The Court order has ended. (Examples: a temporary order has expired; or the court has modified a parenting plan.)
- A financial order is unrelated to support.
- Agreement not to enforce the order by the other person or delay in enforcing is be a risky defense. It may be unwise to agree to ignore an order or to rely on the other party saying they will not enforce it. The court has made the order, not the other party.
The following items are probably NOT good defenses:
- Saying someone advised you to violate the court order (whether the advice came from a lawyer or just a friend or family member).
- You disagree with the order.
- You believe the judge made a mistake by signing the order.
- The other parent violated his/her own responsibilities under the order. (Example: if the other parent fails to allow you visitation, it does not excuse you from paying child support.)
S/he may be able to have the court hearings stayed (stopped) while s/he is on active duty. If the case about child support or maintenance, the Division of Child Support may be able to help collect support/maintenance directly from the military if the obligated party is not paying.
Usually you will have to file a motion. A Motion is not a new case. It takes place in an existing case. It is an effort to enforce an existing order.
You will file your contempt motion in the same county and court where the original order was entered. (If you have an order from another county or state, you must take extra steps to start a new court case in the new county.)
A contempt proceeding includes
- Filing a motion and declaration with the court
- Obtaining a hearing date by having the court sign an Order to Show Cause
- Having the contempt papers (and usually the original court order) properly delivered to every other party
- Participating in the contempt hearing
- Entering an order showing the judge’s decision at the hearing.
The Division of Child Support (DCS) uses extra steps if it files for contempt to enforce a child support order that had been issued by an agency. In their cases, contempt may begin with the filing and service of a Summons and Petition, together with a Motion and the other documents.
Usually the court hears many different cases on the same day. There will be a court calendar listing all the cases the court will hear.
In each case, the court will listen to both parties' arguments. Some courts require live testimony at the hearing. Some require you to get permission in advance to give live testimony. Other courts never allow live testimony. Call clerk of the court where you are filing to find out the local procedure.
The person who has filed for contempt must show:
- there is a court order in place AND
- the other person knows of the order AND
- the other person has violated the court order AND
- the other person has been given reasonable notice of the contempt hearing and the violations claimed.
The person charged with contempt can present defenses. Usually, if s/he claims that s/he cannot obey the court order, s/he must have evidence to prove it. If s/he has filed his/her own motions, the court may hear them at the same time, if you have gotten proper notice.
If the petitioner asks for jail time as a remedy, the person charged with contempt is entitled to a court-appointed lawyer if s/he cannot afford one. 
If the other party fails to come to the court hearing or to review hearings, the court may issue a bench warrant for his/her arrest.
After hearing from both parties, the court will decide on the Motion for Contempt and any other motions before it. The party who wins at the hearing then presents a written order for the court to sign. The judge usually signs that order the same day. Sometimes the judge schedules a new hearing date for you to present the order for signature. The order must accurately summarize the judge's decision.
To remedy contempt, the court can order one or more of the following:
An order designed to make the person obey the order in the future
A forfeiture not to exceed $2,000 for each day the contempt continues;
Payment for losses to the injured party 
Costs to the injured party in bringing the contempt motion 
If the parent has been found in contempt for violation of a parenting plan at least twice in the last three years, that is grounds for modification of the residential provisions of the parenting plan (see RCW 26.09.260(2)(d))
Imprisonment, as a last resort and only so long as it serves the purpose of get the person to comply with the order.
 In this publication you’ll find footnotes like this. Footnotes help identify the sources of law used. Use them to learn more about the law yourself by going to the law library or by reviewing the law online. You can also use them for help identifying the law to the judge when you are in court.
 In re Application for Writ of Habeas Corpus of Parent, 112
 Rideout v. Rideout, 150 Wn. 2d 337 (2003)
 State ex rel. Sargent v. Superior Court for
 In re Marriage of Young, 26 Wn. App. 843, 615 P. 2d 508 (1980). But it can be used to order that property awarded actually be delivered. State ex rel. Sargent v.
 In re James, 79 Wn. App. 436 (1995)
 Jail time as punishment is a different kind of contempt. We don’t cover it in this publication.
 In re Detention of Rebecca K 101Wn. App. 309 (2000), King v. DSHS, 110
 Child support orders can be enforced by contempt even after the child is an adult, unless back due support has been paid in full. RCW 26.18.050(5).
 In re Marriage of Humphreys, 79 Wn. App. 596 (1995).
 Rideout v. Rideout, 150 Wn. 2d.337 (2003).
 In re Koome, 82 Wn. 2d 816, 821 (1973)
 State v. Olsen, 54 Wn. 2d 272, 340 P. 2d 171 (1959), State v. Mecca Twin Theater, 82 Wn. 2d 87, 507 P. 2d 1165 (1973)
 Rideout v. Rideout, 150 Wn. 2d 337 (2003)
 State ex rel. Ewing v. Morris, 120
 In re Marriage of Young 26 Wn. App. 843, 615 P. 2d 508 (1980).
 Dike v. Dike, 75 Wn. 2d 1, 448 P. 2d 490 (1968).
 Wheeler v. Wheeler, 37 Wn. 2d 159, 222 P. 2d 400 (1950).
This publication assumes that the original order and the contempt motion are filed in the same county. Court. We do not discuss what you have to do if this is not the case.
 Tetro v. Tetro,
 King v. Department if Social and Health Services, 110 Wn. 2d 793, 756 P .2d 1303 (1988).
This publication provides general information concerning your rights and responsibilities. It is not intended as a substitute for specific legal advice.
This information is current as of March 2013.
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