My legal rights: I was raped and became pregnant

If you were raped and became pregnant, you have options for limiting the rapist's rights to the child. #3660EN

Please Note:

Read this only if you live in Washington State.


A Washington State law passed in 2019 closed a gap that forced some mothers to co-parent a child conceived from rape.

The law created a court process for rape survivors to end (terminate) or restrict the rapist’s parental rights by presenting clear, convincing evidence that the rape caused the pregnancy.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Yes, if you were raped and became pregnant. You now have options for limiting the rapist's rights to the child.

Not solely because of the rape. 

Before this law, a court could only terminate a rapist's parental rights if someone proved the rapist was an unfit parent.  The state could ask for parental rights termination in a dependency, a court action where the state tries to take the children away from both parents.

In an adoption case, a judge could terminate a parent's rights.

Now you can do this without the state's involvement.  If you can prove the child was born because of a rape, you can decide what parental rights you want the rapist to have, if any.

You must be able to prove the rape happened in one of two ways:

  1. A court convicted the person of or accepted his plea to rape.
  2. You have clear, cogent, and convincing evidence that the person raped you, even if you never reported to the police, or a court never convicted him. The next section explains what "clear and cogent" means.

* You must also prove that the child was born within 320 days after the rape.

It must be more convincing than a preponderance of ("more likely than not") evidence, but less convincing than needed to convict someone of a crime ("beyond a reasonable doubt").

You can ask a court to limit or terminate the rapist's rights in a parentage case.

There are two ways to do this:

  1. You can start (file) a Petition to Stop Parentage Based on Sexual Assault court case. The person who raped you is the Respondent. In your Petition, you must state that the child was born because of sexual assault.
  2. You might be responding to a parentage court case brought by the rapist or the state. The rapist might file a Petition to Decide Parentage or ask the state to do so. The state may start a parentage case to get a child support order, not knowing you were raped.  As part of your Response to any parentage case filed by the rapist or state, you must file a Sexual Assault Allegation. This form states that the child was born because of sexual assault. 

* Our Parentage Cases: If You Were Raped and Got Pregnant packet has forms and instructions.

There will be a court a hearing about your allegation.  You can ask the court to make it a closed hearing. Then only people directly involved in your case would be in the courtroom.

Yes, if you or the rapist asks for it by filing a motion.  The court will wait to hold a hearing until the results come back. 

If the rapist is not the father, you do not need a hearing.

Yes. You must submit your evidence to the court fourteen days before the hearing proving the rape and that the child was born within 320 days after the rape.

You must have a copy of the evidence served on the rapist, or on the rapist's lawyer if the rapist has one.  You can ask the court to seal your evidence so no one else can see it.

The judge decides if the other person did in fact rape you, and if the child was born because of the rape. The judge gives the rapist rights to the child only if you want the person to have those rights. The judge can order that the rapist has no rights (is not a legal parent), or you can let the rapist be a legal parent with limited rights.   

  • If the judge decides you did not prove the rape, the parentage case will go forward. The judge may award the other person parental rights. You may still be able to restrict the person's time with the child. Talk to a lawyer. See contact info below.

Unless you agree otherwise in writing, the rapist will not have any of these rights:

  • To visit with the child.
  • To make decisions about the child.
  • To inherit from the child.
  • To get any notice of adoption of the child.

It is up to you. If the judge finds the rape happened, and you do not want the child to have that person's last name, the judge will not order it.

Yes, but only if you ask for it.

You can also ask the judge to order the rapist to reimburse you for any costs related to the child's birth. This can include premiums for the child's health care.


You can ask the court to limit the rapist's rights in either of these ways: 

  • You can still file a Petition to Stop Parentage based on Sexual Assault   


  • In your divorce, you can ask for a parenting plan that gives your spouse limited or no contact with the child because it is not in the child's best interest.

Not if a court convicted the person of raping you or you can prove they raped you. See "What if I never reported the rape to the police," above. 

You must still file a Petition to Stop Parentage based on Sexual Assault case to get a court to order that the rapist has no parental rights. 

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Last Review and Update: Apr 15, 2022
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